tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3310060814889628959.post1415211721987292942..comments2023-10-18T03:09:12.197-07:00Comments on the globetrotting gamine: re: frenemy situation, help!Globetrotting Gaminehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06112005234702509199noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3310060814889628959.post-19735444131499951692010-10-18T06:32:25.715-07:002010-10-18T06:32:25.715-07:00PS-
Beatrice:
I've just read back on my post ...PS- <br />Beatrice:<br />I've just read back on my post and noticed that the original e-mail I wrote in regards to this post is indeed posted, just in case you were wondering!Globetrotting Gaminehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06112005234702509199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3310060814889628959.post-58219748247634201402010-10-18T06:28:13.162-07:002010-10-18T06:28:13.162-07:00Hi Beatrice :) Thank you for your comment.
Yes, th...Hi Beatrice :) Thank you for your comment.<br />Yes, there is information missing to the story. After some months of tiffs, regarding me telling my friend to please respect my wishes and privacy it just never worked. For example; throwing a last minute birthday party for me I did not want because my Grandmother just came out of the hospital and gone into rehab, blabbering on facebook and in person to others of what my family does or does not own, forwarding information i told her in confidence to all of our friends...after telling her to please respect my privacy, I was told I was crazy and delusional and purposely picking on her because I was miserable.<br />Note that I never intended to cause an argument with the e-mail I had written to her to please respect my privacy, but she blew it up. <br />I am very sorry about your marriage and am happy you have found a true friend in Natasha. Regarding me posting on my blog about an issue I was having, it was therapeutic for me. You are entitled to your own feelings about my maturity :)<br />Again, thank you for your comment and have a happy week!Globetrotting Gaminehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06112005234702509199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3310060814889628959.post-59260304938524365992010-10-15T12:39:27.666-07:002010-10-15T12:39:27.666-07:00Sounds like you must be leaving out your inner iss...Sounds like you must be leaving out your inner issues here. This information you are sharing with us looks like much information is missing here to this story. My best friend Natasha and I have been friends for 35 years and if she would have told me something like that I must have done something to deserve that attitude. Look into yourself and find an answer. Maybe this person was trying to show you that you are not yourself. Years ago Natasha woke me up out of a bad marriage I had if it was not for her I would have stayed with an alcoholic. I also wonder your maturity level my dear, at my age of 56 I would not be displaying any type of conversations on the internet between myself and any of those dear to me. Seems you have a lot of growing up to do my dear.Beatrice McMannnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3310060814889628959.post-57257856509883069012010-03-16T09:45:05.772-07:002010-03-16T09:45:05.772-07:00Cut her out, it's too much drama! She's cl...Cut her out, it's too much drama! She's clearly nuts. I did the same and now I'm FREE!Dora Sislian Themelishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18306284177182293590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3310060814889628959.post-1099544362198679022010-03-15T10:18:38.719-07:002010-03-15T10:18:38.719-07:00Yep it's a really hard decision. I myself had ...Yep it's a really hard decision. I myself had to end my relationship with an Aunt. She's only a few years older than me and has always been a best friend, but our relationship was so toxic to me and my family. I finely had to say enough and cut my ties to her. It's made some awkward family reunions, but my life with so less hurt, stress and drama has been shown me that it’s the best decision I could have made. <br />♥ Pacy♥ Pacyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09373425851106255489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3310060814889628959.post-23135792810095862442010-03-15T06:48:52.097-07:002010-03-15T06:48:52.097-07:00I don't think that she's viciously doing t...I don't think that she's viciously doing this though MG. She's displacing her own inadequacies onto you. In reality she must really be miserable (think about all the things she does to "make" her self happy...)- And since you and LML AREN'T broke, and you AREN'T unhappy but you don't do what she does to MAKE herself happy YOU actually must be miserable from her guise.<br /><br />Also she's being disrespectful by negating your opinions and feelings. You're a very private person and for a person who as known you as long as she has known you, you'd think that she'd know not to blab all your personal information and things that anyone who has known you that long knows would upset you. Also she writes like she's in the 7th grade. Not that that is apropos of anything but it hurt my brain to read. <br /><br />I say just take a break. It may help her grow...and really she needs help. Not just growing but overall. She's disrespectful, rude and selfish. She has some kind of weird issues. <br /><br />You are not negative.<br />And not going someplace b/c you don't like it is normal. It's not even like it's a restaurant you don't like, it's the situation. Not everyone wants to go to a club at midnight. Especially when they are grown. Also...how your LML feels about anyone in your family is NOBODY's business but you and LMLs. <br /><br />I hope she and I aren't ever in the same place at this point b/c I probably wouldn't bite my tongue. What a deluded idiot.married to myselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01549162400877904666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3310060814889628959.post-53276383425274879612010-03-15T04:43:28.872-07:002010-03-15T04:43:28.872-07:00Hi Pacy :)
The first letter was actually written ...Hi Pacy :)<br /><br />The first letter was actually written to me by my best friend for 24 years. She's the absolute last person i'd expect to go around and start talking about me badly behind my back. She never took into consideration the fact that my Grandmother was in the hospital then readmitted to a rehab center during my birthday-time, that I have constant demands and responsibilities on me. She's even been running around telling people I'm broke (well, LML and I) and people believe her because she's "my best friend". <br />I know, I've studied psychology, counseling and the like, and I'm a counselor damnit. LOL. <br />I'm at a total loss though!<br />I *would* ask a patient if it was really worth it to keep this kind of person as a friend. I know the answers, I just never expected that it would happen to me. From her. It's basically vicious and I'm trying to figure out what I've done wrong...you know, aside from my hatred towards others :) Geez.<br /><br />Thanks, Pacy <3Globetrotting Gaminehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06112005234702509199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3310060814889628959.post-16828680509259427822010-03-14T22:41:04.360-07:002010-03-14T22:41:04.360-07:00One question, Is this your friend or your client. ...One question, Is this your friend or your client. When I went into psych. nursing a supervisor told me once that the only thing separating psych workers from their pts. and is one thin gene (grin) that’s probably very true. But I also think we attract future pts. for friends because were the only ones that can deal with their drama and actions and we just don‘t see the drama anymore it‘s all on automatic. Step back and think about how you would advise a pt. who came to you about this problem then take that advice. <br />♥ Pacy♥ Pacyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09373425851106255489noreply@blogger.com